Wake Up, Makeup & Live It Up!
Its time for some gyaan! Life keeps throwing new situations at us and we don’t have any option other than facing it. Its easy to say that be happy with whatever comes your way but seriously, is that even possible? You had a bad at office or had a fight with your partner, there is no way that you can be happy about any of these.
But dearies, moping around is not an option either! You can be sad but its important to come out of the sadness. Thinking about the bad things does not change anything. This is coming from me, who loves to live in past. It is true that feeling bad about what happened in past won’t get you anywhere. I have realized this with my own experiences.
The thing that will make you feel better is to find a solution. You can find a solution to your problem only when your mind is calm. It leads to a very important thing that we need to do- LET GO!
There are all kinds of troubles around us, from small to big. The smaller troubles are mostly shallow that are there just for the sake of them. It is essential to move on from the shallow things. When you see above these little things, you will see a clearer picture of the life situations. This will give you more edge to fight the bigger challenges.
Again, easier said than done. Its just that in order to be happy, you may have to be a little selfish. You can say that your parents, partner or kids are the centre of your universe. Its all OK but when you start compromising on your own happiness for anyone, you stop being happy from yourself.
Sometimes it is important to keep yourself first. You know what, only when you are happy inside, you will be able to give the happiness to the world outside. So in jargon, happiness should be inside-out.
Be a little selfish! Your parents are pestering you to get a government job but you find that boring, then say ‘no’ and make them understand your perspective. Your partner wants to go out all the time but you want to relax at home, say No. You can let him go alone and probably you both will enjoy that way.
Life is tough and tiring so its important to keep yourself together to fight your battles. People can help you but you are the only soldier to fight for your own happiness.
Top Things To Let Go Of
There are a lot of things that you need to let go of in order to be happy. Some of them trouble you more than others. Here is what I want you to let go of-
- Search for perfection
- Other’s approval
- Negativity and Stubbornness
- Insecurity and Jealousy
- Being Judgmental
- Being a control freak
- Negative Body Image
- Trying to find your happiness in others
That’s asking a lot but if you follow these points, you will be happier. After all, your happiness depends on you and only you. Please share your philosophies of life with us.
How do you find your happiness?
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